I love to blog/talk about my family. These sincere sharings are to tell you that family bonding is on top of my life agenda and i believe that each one of us have a uniqueness that others can leverage on. Being very family-oriented, I hope all my entries can contribute by 'prosperizing' other family. This world needs great family towards building great ummah :)

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Ya Allah cukupkan rizki padaku, berkahilah rezeki itu dan gantikan semua yg hilang dengan yang lebih baik lagi. Ya Allah sukakan diriku pd IMAN dan hiasi hatiku dengan IMAN itu. Ya Allah sembuhkan bila ada teman-teman yg sakit, lunasi bagi yang berhutang, mudahkan jodoh yg soleh/solehah bagi yg belum, mudahkan pekerjaan bila yang belum mendapatkannya.. ameen

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Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Ayat Seribu Dinar


Ayat Seribu Dinar

Maksudnya : "Dan sesiapa yang bertaqwa kepada Allah (dengan mengerjakan suruhanNya dan meninggalkan laranganNya), nescaya akan dijadikan baginya jalan keluar (dari segala perkara yang menyusahkannya). Serta memberinya rezeki dari jalan yang tidak terlintas di hatinya. Dan ingatlah, sesiapa berserah diri bulat-bulat kepada Allah, maka Allah akan cukupkan baginya (untuk menolong dan menyelamatkannya). Sesungguhnya Allah tetap melakukan perkara yang dikehendakiNya. Allah telah pun menentukan kadar dan masa bagi berlakunya tiap-tiap sesuatu."
(Surah at-Talaq : ayat 2-3)

Hikmat Ayat Seribu Dinar

1. Ayat ini mengandungi seribu faedah, jikalau diamalkan tiap-tiap kali lepas sembahyang sebanyak tiga kali, insya'Allah akan beroleh seribu faedah.
2. Barangsiapa yang beramal dengan ayat ini, Allah Ta'ala akan mengadakan baginya jalan keluar dari segala kesulitan.
3. Allah Ta'ala akan memberi rezeki yang banyak dengan tidak di sangka-sangka.
4. Allah Ta'ala akan menyampaikan segala hajatnya.
5. Dengan beramal bersungguh-sungguh dan yakin kepada Allah, akan terlindung dari segala bala di darat dan di laut.
6. Jikalau dibaca ayat ini kepada orang yang sedang sakit sebanyak 3 kali dan dihembuskan kepada si pesakit itu dan di jampi pada air sebanyak 3 kali diberi minum, insya'Allah si pesakit akan sembuh.
7. Jikalau mendapat sebarang kesusahan yang amat berat, kesusahan kerana kezaliman orang-orang tamak, oleh peperangan yang ditimbulkan oleh musuh-musuh Negara,beramallah selalu dengan ayat ini selepas solat lima waktu, mudah-mudahan segala kesusahan mendapat perlindungan dari Allah Ta'ala.
8. Jikalau masuk berperang menentang musuh, tiada binasa oleh terbakar, jik di pukul dengan besi tiada lut dan tiada binasa dari sebarang benda yang bahaya, hendaklah beramal dengan ayat ini dan bertawakkal kepada Allah.Baca ayat ini sesudah solat lima waktu, ketika hendak tidur dan ketika hendak keluar rumah.

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Aidil Adha Kami

Entry yg dah basi kot ekekeke...

Bangun pagi2 pakai baju lawa2.. kiter mulakan dgn gambo budak cheeky neh!
CAK!!Qaireen dgn baju kebaya yg agak besar Danisha pakai baju najihah dolu2 :) bucuk2 mama, khayla :) 3 beradik Dah siap2 pegi makan kat umah wan hehe. Khayla wif Wan. Wan baru selesai masak.Dah kenyang semua, hubby kater jom jalan2 KL, kalau dok melepak ni mau tido jer semua ekekeke..Cepat Haris!! Cukup semua, boleh gerak :) Jalan2 masuk KL, pusing2.. area bukit bintang etc..hari hujan.. malas nak turun so round2 sajork sambil borak2 dlm keter..layan lagu raya.. anak2 semua dah tido dlm keter haha Budak tomei ni dok depan ngan mama Dah habis pusing2, balik umah layan TV Malam lak layan anak2 makan aiskrim ekekeke... Hari yg simple tapi menyeronokkan bersama anak2 & suami :)

Monday, November 14, 2011

Bawa anak2 main2 di Jusco Bukit Tinggi

Hari sabtu bawak danisha, qaireen & umar jalan2. Haris tak mau ikut sebab nak main game kat komputer. Dia suka laa tak yah berebut ngan najihah & danisha. Najihah lak tido umah atok & wan dia.

Khayla tinggalkan dgn maid. Kecit lagi kot nak bawak jenjalan.
Sian budak tecit ni kena tinggal.

Umar & Qaireen happy naik keter gi jenjalan.

Danisha, qaireen & umar

Sampai kat Jusco Bukit Tinggi kiter isi perut dulu lah...


Masa yg ditunggu2.. masa riang ria...
Lama gak lah biar dorang kat dlm tu.. biler balik masuk keter semua pengsan hehe
Umar ni mmg berani.. jom tgk video dia panjat.. tinggi jugak tau!

Sunday, November 13, 2011

A typical day in my life



11:11:11 on 11.11.11

Cindy came up with the idea to do something memorable on 11.11.11 since it is not a day to be forgotten. So peeps enjoy the piccas...

The preparation:


hoho double chin!!!!


Tick Tock Tick Tock... Happy 11/11/11!!!!
It was great!!! We really had joyful time together. :)

So what did you do on 11.11.11?

Wednesday, November 09, 2011

Sebelum Tidur

sekadar gambar hiasan :)


~ Sekadar perkongsian yg dicilok dr fb~

.......dulu hamba sendiri dgr lagu2 sblm tidur..kdg2 sampai tak tertutup lagu tu..satu hari....ibuku menegurku, 'kalau lah mati dalam tidur mcm mana?? bknnya kalimah ALLAH yg didgr, tapi alunan muzik!!!'..

....jadi di sini ada sedikit perkongsian dan ingatan bg rakan2 dan diriku juga.. =)

Perkara Sebelum Tidur( Tafsir Haqqi )

Rasulullah berpesan kepada Aisyah ra : "Ya Aisyah jangan engkau tidur
sebelum melakukan empat perkara, yaitu :

1. Sebelum khatam Al Qur'an,
2. Sebelum membuat para nabi memberimu syafaat di hari akhir,
3. Sebelum para muslim meridhai kamu,
4. Sebelum kau laksanakan haji dan umrah

"Bertanya Aisyah :

"Ya Rasulullah.... Bagaimana aku dapat melaksanakan empat perkara
seketika?"

Rasul tersenyum dan bersabda : "Jika engkau tidur bacalah : Al Ikhlas
tigakali seakan-akan kau mengkhatamkan Al Qur'an.

Bismillaahirrahmaanirrahiim,

Qulhuallahu ahad' Allahushshomad' lam yalid walam yuulad' walam yakul
lahuu kufuwan ahad' ( 3 x )

Bacalah selawat untukKu dan para nabi sebelum aku, maka kami semua
akan memberi syafaat di hari kiamat.

Bismillaahirrahmaanirrohiim, Allahumma sollii 'alaa syaidinaa
Muhammad wa'alaa aalii syaidinaa Muhammad ( 3 x )

Beristighfarlah untuk para muslimin maka mereka akan meredhai kamu.
Astaghfirullahal adziim aladzii laa ilaaha illaa huwal hayyul qoyyuum
wa atuubu ilaih ( 3 x )

Dan, perbanyaklah bertasbih, bertahmid, bertahlil, bertakbir maka
seakan-akankamu telah melaksanakan ibadah haji dan umrah"

Bismillaahirrahmaanirrahiim, Subhanallahi Walhamdulillaahi walaailaaha
illalloohu allahu akbar(3 x )

Sekian untuk ingatan kita bersama.

Marriage.

“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.

Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?

I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man! That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly give her a satisfactory answer; she had lost my heart to Jane. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated that she could own our house, our car, and 30% stake of my company. She glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had said for I loved Jane so dearly. Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Jane. When I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce. She requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month’s time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She requested that every day for the month’s duration I carry her out of our bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy. Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Jane about my wife’s divorce conditions. . She laughed loudly and thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face the divorce, she said scornfully.

My wife and I hadn’t had any body contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son clapped behind us, daddy is holding mommy in his arms. His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling somewhat upset. I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I drove alone to the office.

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my chest. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was growing again. I didn’t tell Jane about this. It became easier to carry her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning. She tried on quite a few dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily.

Suddenly it hit me… she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head.

Our son came in at the moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mom out. To him, seeing his father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life. My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom, through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I drove to office…. jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind…I walked upstairs. Jane opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Jane, I do not want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished, and then touched my forehead. Do you have a fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Jane, I said, I won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each other anymore. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until death do us apart. Jane seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote, I’ll carry you out every morning until death do us apart.

That evening I arrived home, flowers in my hands, a smile on my face, I run up stairs, only to find my wife in the bed - dead. My wife had been fighting CANCER for months and I was so busy with Jane to even notice. She knew that she would die soon and she wanted to save me from the whatever negative reaction from our son, in case we push through with the divorce.— At least, in the eyes of our son—- I’m a loving husband….

The small details of your lives are what really matter in a relationship. It is not the mansion, the car, property, the money in the bank. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot give happiness in themselves.

So find time to be your spouse’s friend and do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real happy marriage!

Thursday, November 03, 2011

Shawl

Lepas bersalin ni, saya dah rajin balik pakai shawl lilit2... :). Masa memula pakai en.suami kata macam pesen tido dlm selimut hahahaha..dush dush dush..wachaaaa...
Yg ni pulak dia kata macam princess Amidala.. ok la sket dr tido dlm selimut hahaha...
Tapi practice makes perfect kan.. rasanya dah makin ok dah kot :)
Ari tu terembat jeans 'guess' baru coz ada 50% diskaun. Tq laling :).

Tuesday, November 01, 2011

Tentang rumah

Tak sabarnya nak tunggu built-in wardrobe saya siap. Tak larat dah tgk bakul2 kain & almari baju anak2 yg dah kopak pintu ekekke..

Sabtu ni, org kian classic nak dtg ukur baru, pas tu tunggu lagi dia dtg pasang pulak..haish tak sabarnyaa...

Kami amik pakej masa homdec bulan baper entah, awal taun ari tu.. rm11k+, wardrobe 8 kaki dlm master bedroom, 6 kaki bilik anak2 pompuan, 6 kaki bilik anak2 lelaki, cabinet tv 8 kaki kat bawah & cabinet tv 6 kaki kat family hall atas.

Ni keadaan living hall kitaorg sekarang, cer tgk cabinet tv yg dah berlobang dek penangan anak2 yg sedang melasak haha..
Oh tak sabarnya nak cantikkan umah.. kitaorg ni slow2 jerk buat coz biler ada bajet jerk baru buat.. tak mampu nak buat sekali gus terus huhu.. tambah2 lagi ngan perbelanjaan anak2 6 org semua tu, susu & pamper sebulan pun dah ribu riban tsk tsk.. so biler tak der dok ontok2 jer lah walaupun keinginan nak cantikkan umah tu membuak2 ekekeke...

Baby cot tu sajer letak bawah sebab nak kurung umar yg melasak suka panjat sana sini :).

K lah nanti biler dah pasang wardrobe & cabinet tv tu semua saya amik gambo letak sini. Plan tu macam2 termasuklah beli sofa baru etc tapi semua tertakluk pada budget lah u ols ekekeke.

Sebelum saya bersalin ari tu, hubby upah indon cat luar rumah yg dah berkarat cat dia tu. Ni la first time cat balik after 6 taun lebih dah pindah masuk sini.

Ni gambo sebelum cat.
Berkarat/berkulat dah cat
Ni selepas dah cat. Malas nak pening kepala nak fikir cat color apa, so instead of 3 color sebelum neh kitaorg amik 2 color jer lah, putih & cream. supaya nampak bersih jer.
Ni lak indon tu tgh cat pagar.walaupun rumah saya ni design dia tak cantik macam rumah2 baru sekarang ni tapi saya bersyukur sebab masa saya beli harga rumah ni sgt murah. Corner lot ngan tanah yg agak besar cuma rm210K sahaja. Bulan2 saya cuma bayar rm1K. Kalau saya beli rumah baru di luar puncak alam pun, saya takkan jual rumah ni. sayang ooo...

Oh ya, apartment saya yg kat bukit tinggi tu kami dah berjaya jual.. yippie yeay!!! Alhamdulillah :).

Video Najihah

Najihah ni suka sgt curi2 main camera bb/phone saya. Ari tu saya dok browse tgk video2 dlm BB saya sekali terjumpa video neh.

Najihah ni suka main barbie and buat citer. So mari saksikan - Barbie Webisodde by Najihah.

Cer dengar English Najihah, slang tak leh blah hahaha


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