Tragedi October

Perkara yg paling saya takuti selama ni.. Air panas tertumpah dan kena pd anak2..

Patutnya saya naik kejer Isnin 3 Oct. So malam tu dah siap2 segala brg yg nak bawak gi opis, beg laptop, beg telekung, beg pam susu semua dah susun cantik2. Mmg dah ready lah badan & otak nak pi opis esok ni.

Masa kejadian tu berlaku saya dah tido dah pun, umar pun dah lena sebelah saya tapi anak2 yg lain, danisha, qaireen, jihah & haris masih dok bersuka ria, happy sebab mak tok & tok ba dorang ada kat rumah. Entah masa biler umar bangun dan pegi main bakul susu yg saya

bawak naik atas utk buat susu umar, qaireen & danisha malam2. Sebab saya penakut nak turun bawah. Kebetulan sebelum tu Najihah bukak flask air tu & tak tutup rapat.

Saya sedar biler dgr umar menjerit kuat. Rupa2nya dia dah angkat flask tu dan air yg tertumpah tu kena kaki dia.. huhu.. saya panik giler masa tu. Air tu panas sgt sebab masak2 jerk maid terus tuang masuk flask.. mmg masih panas sgt lagi.

Terus angkat dia, dlm kalut2 tu, mak saya sapu semua kaki yg kena tu dgn colgate.

Sayu hati saya biler tgk kulit ada yg menggelembung & ada yg dah terkopek/tersiat jatuh. Terus saya & hubby siap2 bawak terus ker Damansara Specialist. Yer lah masa kena tu dlm kul 11 lebih dah nak dekat kul 12, baik pegi terjah unit kecemasan kat sana. Sampai jer sana nurse terus inject ubat tahan sakit. Umar masa ni dah meraung2 kesakitan. Hancur luluh hati saya masa tu. Pas tu kena tegur dgn nurse sebab letak colgate. Patutnya nurse kata just lalukan bawah air sejuk. Colgate tu mmg mula2 dia sejuk tapi beberapa ketika lepas tu dia jadi panas. huhu..sian umar.

Mmg saya ada baca kalau kena air panas lalukan bawah air sejuk, tapi biler dah kalut2 macam tu, jadi panik semua lupa.

Then diskas ngan Doc, dia kata ada 2 cara. 1st x yah masuk wad tapi hari2 kena dtg buat dressing. 2nd buat one-time treatment, tapi kena buat minor surgery, tampal kollagen. Doc suggest tampal kolagen sebab kalau dressing hari2 sian dia tahan sakit.

So malam terus tido wad and umar kena poser start kul 5 pagi coz pagi2 dlm kul 8 pagi cam tu doc nak buat operation tu. Masa umar tgh lalok2 tu, nurse try cuci colgate tu dgn air suling then balut elok2 sementara tunggu operation esok pagi.

Tunggu punya tunggu, kul 12 tghari baru nak masuk OT. Kesian sgt kat umar, lapar & dahaga tak leh minum susu/air. Delay sebab operation org sebelum tu amik masa lama.

Hubby tgh pujuk umar, cuba alih perhatian umar dr mintak susu.
Saya masuk OT, teman umar. Lepas umar dah pengsan sepenuhnya baru saya kuar.
Umar lepas kuat dr OT
Doc buang semua kulit yg gelembung & rosak tu. Then tanpal dgn kollagen dr membran lembu.Nanti biler isi baru tumpuh sepenuhnya lapisan membrane lembu ni akan tercabut sendiri.
Umar kat recovery area, lepas kuar dr OT
Nurse keringkan air2 yg mengalir keluar dr luka dgn hair dryer. Masa dlm bilik pun setiap 2 jam saya kena keringkan dgn hair dryer yg dibekalkan.
Dah kat bilik. Umar dah sedar, terus bagi dia minum air kosong dulu. Doc kata kalau tak muntah baru boleh bagi minum susu. Habis 2 botol air kosong umar minum. dahaga sgt kot.
Keadaan kaki umar after operation.
Mak Tok & Tok Ba dtg bawak kakak2, abg haris & baby khayla..semua dtg tgk umar.
Hari kedua, Bos hubby dtg melawat. Umar dapat beg barney ni. Thanks to En.Mutalif from Sapura.

Umar happy :)
Keadaan kaki umar pada hari ke-2. Dah kering sikit.
Hamper dr Company Hubby - Sapura
Umar dok spital 3 hari. Alhamdulillah hari ke-3 tu luka dah kering. Buat masa sekarang ni, umar mandi tak leh kena air kat kaki tu dan ada follow up check up seminggu/2 minggu sekali.

As of today, ada sikit lagi kulit yg masih belum luruh. Nanti biler semua kulit dah luruh & tumbuh kulit baru saya snap lagi amik gamba kaki dia yer :)

mmg betul2 pengajaran lah buat saya & family biler berlaku kejadian mcm ni. Saya berdoa Allah lindungilah Anak2 kiter dr benda2 yg tak diingini macam ni. Rasa bersalah tu sampai sekarang ada dlm diri saya :(

~Forgiveness~

*** sekadar gambar hiasan utk menceriakan hari anda :) ****

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen, totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.

What do you think were the four words?

The husband just said "I Love You Darling"

The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he have taken time to keep the bottle away, this will not have happened. No
point in attaching blame. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.

Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. We miss out some warmth in human relationship in giving each other support. After all, shouldn't forgiving someone we love be the easiest thing in the world to do? Treasure what you have. Don't multiply pain, anguish and suffering by holding on to forgiveness.

If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world.

Take off all your envies, jealousies, unwillingness to forgive, selfishness, and fears and you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think...

AMALAN YANG BAIK OLEH IBUBAPA SUPAYA ANAK-ANAK DAPAT MENJAWAB SOALAN PEPERIKSAAN DENGAN MUDAH DAN TENANG

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Assalamualaikum,

Kepada pembaca yang mempunyai anak-anak yang akan menduduki peperiksaan tahun ini. Penulis ada sikit untuk kita berkongsi bersama iaitu amalan yang baik untuk ibubapa melakukan amalan ini ketika anak-anak sedang menjawab soalan di Dewan Peperiksaan. Ibu atau bapa yang berada di rumah boleh melakukan amalan ini supaya anak-anak kita dapat menjawab soalan dengan mudah dan tenang.

KETIKA ANAK-ANAK SEDANG MENJAWAB SOALAN DI DEWAN PEPERIKSAAN.

Ibu atau bapa di rumah pula lakukan amalan ini:-

1. Ambil Wudhuk.

2. Mengadap kiblat.

3. Baca Syahadah - 3x

4. Al- Fatihah - 1x

5. 3 Qul- 1x

6. Surah Insyirah - 1x

7. Selawat Atas Nabi - 10x

8. Baca Surah Yassin - 1x

9. Baca Surah Insyirah 100x.



10. Niat di dalam hati supaya Allah SWT permudahkan anak-anak kita menjawab soalan dengan mudah dan tenang.

Contoh:

Waktu peperiksaan bermula jam 0800 pagi. Ibu atau bapa di rumah boleh mula melakukan. Semuga anak-anak kita dapat menjawab soalan dengan baik serta beroleh kejayaan yang besar.

Sumber:

Amalan ini diberikan oleh seorang guru wanita yang sudah bersara 4 tahun yang lalu iaitu Cikgu Rohana dari Sekolah Menegah Hutan Melintang. Anak-anak beliau kesemuanya telah berjaya didalam akademik. Alhamdulillah kita dapat berkongsi.


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